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Real stories from the life of women - readers of the blog, about domestic tyranny. Your stories are accepted into the category! How did you meet your tyrant husband, how did your relationship develop, what feelings and thoughts bothered you, and of course, how did you manage to get rid of the tyrant and recover from painful dependence on him? Read, discuss, consult, share experiences!

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“Okay, see you tomorrow,” I said into the phone to end the conversation, which lasted more than two hours.

One might think that we are talking about a meeting. Moreover, in a place well known to both of us. But it wasn't. We were just making arrangements for... the next call. And everything looked exactly the same for several months. Then I called Polina for the first time in four years. And I pretended that I was just calling to find out how she was doing, but in fact I wanted to renew the relationship.

I met her shortly before graduation. We were both in a relationship then, but a spark really ran between us. However, only a month after we met, we broke up with partners. However, we were in no hurry to get close. Because on the one hand, something attracted us to each other, and on the other hand, something constantly interfered. As if we were afraid that our connection would be dangerous. In the end, after a year of mutual study of each other, we became a couple. And if until that time our relations developed very slowly, then since we became together everything has been spinning at a very fast pace. A period of strong mutual attraction and dizzying emotions began. We felt that we could not exist without each other. And then ... we broke up.

Without any clarification. Simply, one day we did not agree on another meeting. And then none of us called the other for a week, expecting this act from the other side. At some point, I even wanted to do it ... But then I was young and green, and didn’t think of doing it - I just took it and took offense at Polina because she so easily abandoned our reverent relationship. So I decided not to force myself on her. I knew what I was thinking and doing was stupid. But then he could not calmly analyze what happened. It was only after some time that I began to really understand the situation. Gradually I realized the stupidity of my act.

I think we both felt like a good match for each other, and just started to fear what might happen next to our "great love". We were very young, we wanted to get a lot of experience in love affairs, and most importantly, we felt unprepared for a serious, stable relationship. Most likely, we both wanted to “freeze” our love for several years, and “unfreeze” it one day, at one fine moment, when we feel that we are ripe for it. But, unfortunately, it didn't work out that way. After parting, we did not completely lose touch - we had many mutual friends, we went to the same places. So from time to time we bumped into each other, and these were not the best moments.

I don’t know why, but each of us considered it our duty to send a caustic sarcastic remark after the other, as if accusing us of what had happened. I even decided to do something about it and offered to meet to discuss "complaints and grievances". Polina agreed, but ... did not come to the appointed place. And when we met by chance, two months after that, she began to stupidly explain why she then made me stand pointlessly in the wind, and then did not even call. Then she again asked me for a meeting, but again she did not appear.

The beginning of a new life...

Since then, I began to consciously avoid places where I might accidentally meet her. So we didn't see each other for several years. I heard some rumors about Polina - I heard that she was dating someone, that she left the country for a year, but then returned and began to live with her parents again. I tried to ignore this information and live my own life. I had two novels - as it seemed, very serious ones, but in the end nothing came of them. And then I thought: I'll talk to Polina. I couldn't imagine what went through my head! Although no - I know. I missed her... I really, really missed her...

She was surprised by my phone call, but also pleased. We talked then for several hours. Exactly the same the next day. And the next one. It's hard to say what we discussed for so long. In general, everything about a little and a little about everything. There was only one topic we tried to avoid. We were the topic...

It all looked as if we, despite the years that had passed, were afraid to be honest. However, one day Polina said:

“Listen, maybe we can finally decide on something?

“No thanks,” I replied immediately. “I don't want to disappoint you again.

There was silence on the phone.

“If you are afraid that I will not come, then you can come to me,” she finally said.

“Yeah, and you tell your parents to put me out,” I snorted.

Rostik, stop it! Polina began to get nervous. “Everything was so good, and you're ruining everything again.

- Again! - I was outraged in earnest. “Maybe you can tell me what I did?”

“Probably something you won’t do. You won't call me for a few months.

“But you will call me daily,” I imitated her voice.

Don't turn things upside down! Polina screamed, and I sighed heavily.

“I don’t want to end up with nothing again. If you want to see me, then come to me yourself,” I announced to her. “I’ll be waiting for you in the evening, at eight o’clock. Hope you come...

“As you wish,” Polina hung up the phone.

New circumstances...

For the first time since we started calling, we had to say goodbye in anger. And most importantly, I now had no idea if she would call me again, and would she come to me? Polina's words could be interpreted exactly as an agreement to come, and a refusal. However, I was waiting for her. Cleaned up my studio apartment, which I didn't do very often. I cooked dinner, bought wine and flowers. And he finished reading the story: "". Every minute of waiting made me even more nervous. I even wanted to give up my rude behavior and intransigence in the matter of the meeting.

At fifteen past eight I began to wonder if I should go to Polina's. I didn’t go just because she could come to me at any moment, and we would have missed each other. At nine o'clock I lost hope. Angrily began to dial her number to tell her everything I think about her. But he did not finish the job and pressed "Hang up". Then I wanted to call again, but I thought to myself that she might consider this call as a manifestation of my weakness. I didn't want Paulina to know how worried I was that she didn't come and how hurt I was by her indifference. I decided to spare her such pleasure.

I went to bed only at 12 o'clock at night, but I could not sleep for a long time, because I kept thinking about this situation. On average, every five minutes I changed my point of view. At first I thought that only I was to blame, because if I hadn’t been stubborn like a donkey and came to her, then our relationship would have improved, and we were happy. After a while, I began to reproach myself for such naive thoughts. After all, she would have put me out anyway! And the more I thought about it, the more I believed it. When I was almost asleep… the intercom rang.

At first I thought it was some kind of mistake or a joke. But the intercom kept ringing persistently. Then I had to stand up and say:

- Two o'clock in the morning! – angrily barked into the phone.

Needless to say, I was surprised. And how! With a trembling hand, I pressed the button to open the door to the entrance. What will be next?

After a long two minutes, I heard a call. He opened the door ... and saw Polina sitting in a wheelchair, accompanied by two orderlies. She had a cast on her right leg and right arm. Before I could ask what happened, one of the men said:

- The girl herself was discharged by own will and insisted that we bring her here. Her whole future life apparently depends on this.

I didn't ask anything more. The orderlies helped Polina sit on a large sofa in the living room and quickly left. I sat down across from her and looked at her for a full minute in astonishment.

There was complete silence in the room.

“I'm glad you came,” I said, and Polina smiled.

“I always wanted to come,” she replied. Do you remember the first time we agreed to meet, but I didn't show up? Then my grandmother died. The second time my dad had a heart attack. It seems incredible, but it's true nonetheless. As if someone didn't want us to...

“But now, I see, you did not pay attention to the obstacles,” I smiled.

“It happened a week ago,” Polina pointed to the cast. - She slipped on the icy pavement. Thought we'd meet when I was well...but I thought I just need to put in a little effort. I was worried about you...
I didn't answer and just kissed her.

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